why do people get scared of loving someone? because I feel as though when u fall in love or like someone, it’s like u and this person are pointing guns at each other and telling each other everyday that you won’t pull the trigger and once you learn to trust that person and believe they won’t hurt you, you learn to put your gun down and they either have it up or down it’s up to them..so why is this so terrible?; why does this scare me so badly to love and trust someone..? if I don’t have the slightest fear of dying..